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Disputes Relating to Children

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Putting children first during separation

When a relationship ends, your children’s wellbeing is your top priority. We understand how important it is to minimise disruption to their lives and to find solutions that work for everyone involved.

 

Whether you’re deciding where your child will live, how much time they will spend with each parent, or how key decisions about their upbringing will be made, we are here to help you navigate these sensitive issues with care and clarity.

Finding the right way forward

If you and your partner are struggling to agree, there are several ways to resolve disputes without going straight to court. We can help you explore options such as:

  • Mediation – including hybrid mediation, where your solicitor supports you during the process
  • Collaborative law
  • Negotiation between solicitors
  • Arbitration
  • Court proceedings, if necessary

We will guide you toward the approach that’s right for your family.

 

How we can help

Our experienced children law solicitors can support you with:

We will work with you to protect your child’s long-term interests and help you find the right path forward - whether through agreement or court intervention.

 

What is a Child Arrangements Order?

If you cannot agree on where your child should live or how much time they spend with each parent, the court can make a Child Arrangements Order. This replaces older terms like “custody” or “contact.”

The court can also help with:

  • Specific issues – such as which school your child should attend or whether their surname should change
  • Prohibited steps – such as preventing a parent from taking a child abroad without consent.

In some cases, grandparents or other family members may be involved. The court may also appoint a Children’s Guardian to represent your child’s interests.

 


 

What will the court consider?

The court’s main concern is always the welfare of the child. It will consider:

  • Your child’s wishes and feelings (depending on their age and understanding)
  • Their physical, emotional, and educational needs
  • The likely impact of any changes to their home or routine
  • Their age, background, and any relevant characteristics
  • Any risk of harm
  • How well each parent (or other carer) can meet their needs

In some cases, Social Services may become involved if there are concerns about a child’s safety or wellbeing.

Our experience

We represent children, parents, and grandparents in a wide range of family law matters. Whatever your situation, we will build a strong legal team around you and provide the support you need - every step of the way.

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